Shabbat, Bill Collectors, Rain and Rest

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Shabbat dawned sunny but a bit chilly, for us, anyway.  The latter rains have come to the dry pampas but blew on over to the northeast yesterday leaving everything a bright green and fresh smelling.  That part of it is great … the waving fronds of weeds mocking me isn’t so great.

But today is a day of rest, and I put mowing out of my mind, along with a growing list of house maintenance items.  I spend all week ignoring my chores, and then on a holy day of rest, I want to do them all in one day.  I am a failure at religion, but I keep trying to live up to its tenets.

The neighbor bought a new motorcycle, and rather than ride it, he sets in the yard and guns it.  I like bikes ok, but after ten minutes of hearing it rev, I start getting a headache and contemplate if I can put a hole in his engine block with a 30-06 without putting a hole him.  They frown on shooting anyone but robbers and burglars here.

Snooks is at a plateau now, and at some moments she is almost normal, and at others she can’t recall anything more than six seconds past.  But I can tell her the same joke everyday now, and she thinks it is funny.  So often I want to ride to her rescue as she fights with the remote control, and usually she gets it after struggling with it.  But a few times she has pulled me out of bed to turn off the TV and black box.  I keep reminding myself that we are not even into a full year yet.

I have noticed that if she doesn’t take an honest nap in bed, she has more problems.  But she has never been a ‘napper’, and sometimes it is all we can do to talk her into it.  More difficult things like counting by twos and fours gives her problems.

And she is a sucker for telephone spammers.  One day a salesman showed up for a roof repair, and I had to send him back home.  He protested he had an appointment, and when I told him that Snooks just can’t handle pressure now and told him yes just to shut him up.

And now we get incessant calls from Medicare plans since this is the enrollment period.  For a long while now, it has been people from Pakistan and India making the calls, but just last week, I started getting people with Asian accents.  They want to talk with Leeendahh … and I tell them she is unavailable and will never be available to them.  A couple of them got very nasty about it, but frankly, it makes my day when I unhinge one.

But Snook ALWAYS knows that on Shabbat, she listens to a podcast from our old congregation in Denver.  She remembers how to find it and log on.  So, a lot of her memory problems are contingent on her interest in the subject.

Bruce and Amber have really risen to the occasion, and prepare six of the evening meals each week, and clean up afterwards.  And I haven’t horked off too many of my debtors as I try and get their bills paid in a timely manner.  But that is going to be the subject of another post, when I can start laughing at my mistakes.

So on this day of rest, I write, I muse, I play games, and I remember what this day is, and the mystery of it.

Good morning!

10 thoughts on “Shabbat, Bill Collectors, Rain and Rest

    croneskeep said:
    November 12, 2022 at 2:17 pm

    Yesterday put a stop to a lovely run of Indian Summer here. When I got up at five, it was raining and it didn’t stop until sometime sometime after midnight if it stopped at all. Today is likewise wet, dreary, and miserable although not as much rain as yesterday. I managed to hit three different stores amassing the groceries for the next couple of weeks without getting wet.

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      Rusty Armor responded:
      November 12, 2022 at 3:12 pm

      So, do I have to play 20 questions?


        Anonymous said:
        November 13, 2022 at 12:45 pm

        Oops. Forgot this was a new account. It’s Mop 😉

        Liked by 1 person

        Rusty Armor responded:
        November 13, 2022 at 12:50 pm

        LOL! I had guessed about five different people I know, and you weren’t one of them. OK … now I know!


    Rivergirl said:
    November 12, 2022 at 2:49 pm

    I think your wife is a smart woman. Only remember the things that interest you…. I like it!

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    Catherine said:
    November 13, 2022 at 7:46 am

    Good morning from soggy Florida. 🙂

    Liked by 1 person

    Lia Storm said:
    November 14, 2022 at 1:43 pm

    ” I spend all week ignoring my chores, and then on a holy day of rest, I want to do them all in one day. I am a failure at religion, but I keep trying to live up to its tenets.” I am laughing about this because I am the same way. I sat in church the other day and all I could do is think about all the things I put off all week and wanted to get done . I don’t think you are a failure at religion, I think you are human and none of us will ever live up to the standards set before us, but you strive to and that is what counts.

    It sounds like your lady is doing well even if she still struggles. Maybe some things will always be hard for her, but celebrate the progress she has made. And isn’t it a joy that she is still with you? ❤️

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    The Hinoeuma said:
    November 20, 2022 at 12:44 pm

    I ignore chores as much as possible, too.


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